Things I regret not doing in my 20s

1) Not wearing fashionable outfits that fits my age (20s)

I was very stingy. But now that I reach the age of 31 I realized I only lived once. And there are so many fashionable outfits I can surely rock had I not been sleeping on them in my 20s. Now I really wanted to wear them but wearing them would scream age-inappropriate. I wish I had worn them when I was younger.

I am not into revealing clothes and this was the main reason why I never followed what's in in the past. I only realized there are way too many fashionable and trendy outfits that does not reveal skin. my bad

2) Not cultivating friendships that will last a lifetime.

I don't have strong ties with my current friends. The friends I have right now are just temporary. It's not their fault. It was my choice not to invest feelings and time. My traumatic experience from high school left a deep scar that I am still having a hard time being vulnerable towards the friends I have had after high school. I was deeply hurt in the past. Now it is really hard for me to trust somebody completely. There were so many friends I had shut out from my life. They must have been puzzled why I did so. They must have hated or resented me. I am sorry towards them. But I can't muster the courage to personally apologize .

The friends I have right now don't prepare surprises for me. I can't even invite them to go on a trip with me. Still, it's all my fault. Because I never let them feel my availability. I am only available when I feel like it. Though they wanted to spend time, I only spend time with them when I feel convenient.

Ganid/Swapang

My new years resolution ideas

1. Explore a creative hobby 2. Design your ideal habits 3. Break your bad habits 4. Read 10 pages a day 5. Listen to audiobooks 6. Try something you’ve always wanted to try 7. Take control of your finances. Save & invest. 8. Invest in yourself 9. Declutter your closet / space 10. Gather your old things to sell for extra cash 11. Plan an artist date for yourself 12. Write a love letter to yourself. 13. Reconnect with an old friend 14. Reach out to someone you admire and compliment them 15. Create a current me vs. future me for 2018 16. Redecorate your space 17. Try stream-of-consciousness journaling everyday for a week 18. Go on an adventure in your hometown 19. Volunteer 20. Try yoga or improve your practice 21. Dress up 22. Dance more 23. Wake up earlier than usual and have a slow, mindful morning 24. Learn a new skill 25. Clean up your eating habits Bonus: Take an Ayurveda quiz. Learn the basics of your mind-body type and what foods/lifestyle suits your type!

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1)      Work on upping your self-care game to feel mentally happier and physically healthier (sleep, nutrition, relaxation, exercise)

2)      Only watch youtube/kpop/kdrama related contents on weekends. Spend your nights reading and growing spiritually and mentally

3)      Start a bullet journal to organise your life

4)      Get in to nature once a week to look after your mental health

5)      Buy only ethically produced clothing in 2018 to feel empowered and socially responsible

6)      Stop doing a destructive behaviour for a year of growth

7)      Start a daily journal habit for clarity and organisation

-          Write 3 wins today

-          3 things you are grateful for/gratitude

-          3 things to do for the next day

8)      Limit takeout/eating at fastfood chains/restaurants to once a month to save money and eat healthier

9)      Write out your goals 10x a day to burn them in to your subconscious

10)   Start a gratitude journal to change your daily perspective (just 5)

11)   Start a meditation habit every afternoon/evening to let go of the day

12)   Make 2 new friends this year

13)   Open an experiences bank account for more adventures during the year

14)   Plan an epic road trip to look forward to

15)   Get rid of all your clutter for a simplified life

16)   Rehaul your money management

17)   Start waking up at 5am

18)   Change your diet/rehaul your diet

19)   Create more connection by calling or messaging a friend/family member everyday

20)   Stop wasting food

(c) Youtubers MuchelleB & Lavendaire